think about this. no, things are going alright right now, don't worry, i'm alright. but think about this...just because a person comes off strong doesn't mean they don't have their soft spots. not just soft spots but this doesn't mean they aren't human. seriously. don't play with people. take them into account. usually people who come off very positive and are center of attention etc are the ones who are fighting with the biggest insecurities. so true. it's all just a facade. not usually, just often.